expectations - the movie

Can our expectations be decoupled from someone else's , when it is that someone who is the actor in that expectation.
Yesterday , I failed miserably as the director of that movie.
It's like there still is the lacuna where all the communication that i thought would take place , was lost.
The actor played the part , but i could not see my reflection in the character.
What a waste.
Why the dependency?
When can we find the coherence.
When can I make a blockbuster?
The dependency still remains.
For a director never makes a movie for himself .
Or does he?
Wish he could.
And yet not.